How often have you spent weeks, or even months speaking to that particular girl you like, then working up the courage to ask her out, only to hear those horrible words:
“Oh, you are so sweet, but I do not really see you in that manner.
If you hear that, it is as if she has reached deep inside of your chest and ripped your heart out!
Hurts, does not it?
1 – They never tell the girls their true intentions!
This is the most common reason why guys eventually get friend zoned.
They like the girl; they want to go on a date with her, have fun, sleep with her, and eventually start a relationship. But they are so afraid of rejection that they always skirt around the problem, never clearly stating what they want and letting the woman know that they really like her romantically!
You must understand that rejection is a part of life and that no matter what you do – not everybody’s going to like you.
That’s why it’s always best to let the girl know that you’re interested in her romantically, and that you’d like to go on a date with her.
If she says yes – great!
2 – They treat her like a princess!
If you never disagree with the woman, never express your own opinion, always feign interest in the topics she brings up, even if they don’t interest you – the girl will detect this and won’t respect you.
If you’re constantly fearful of offending the woman or making her angry, always “walking on eggshells” so to speak – she’ll realize that you are a spineless man and lose all attraction towards you.
That’s why “Bad Boys” get to have all the fun, while “Nice Guys” are left behind in the dust.
Bad Boys do not fear rejection, aren’t afraid of offending people, of living life, of judgment from others. They do not give a rat’s behind about what anyone thinks of them and they do not filter their thoughts when they talk – they tell it like it is.
That’s incredibly attractive to the vast majority of women, and exactly the reason why most women fall for these so-called “rebels”.
3 – They always doubt themselves!
Self-doubt is one of the most unattractive qualities that a person can possess.
If you can’t make decisions, question your every move, hesitate when speaking to the woman, touching her, leading her, and other similar matters – you are not going to get anywhere!
Women don’t like men who are wracked with insecurities and self-esteem issues. It’s best for you to learn how to get those things handled!
4 – They bore girls half to death!
This is another huge mistake that most men make.
When talking to girls, they begin asking all of the boring, and uninspired questions like “Where are you from?” , and so on and so forth.
Every girl has heard these questions a hundred times! You are there to flirt, have a fun, interesting, and exciting conversation with her – and not to conduct an interview!
Refrain from asking the things that a thousand other men have asked her – and learn some much-needed social skills that spice up a conversation.
Do not bore her to death and demonstrate that you are both going to have a fun time if she accepts your invitation!
If you follow this advice and always make your intentions clear, you are never going to land in the friend zone!
At worst, you will get rejected and know where you stand with her.
Very good luck!